04 Jun 2026
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Practical advice from your HR consultant in Thanet on managing overlapping summer holiday requests fairly, avoiding disputes, and keeping your team onside.
It isn't. And the cracks tend to show around June.
Without a clear process, you're left making decisions on the spot that can feel unfair to your team and impossible to justify later. That's when resentment builds and good people start questioning whether you've got favourites.
Here's what you can do to get ahead of it.
Pick a method for resolving clashes and commit to it
Before a single summer request lands on your desk, you need a system for deciding who gets priority when two or more people want the same week off.
There are two approaches that work well for small businesses.
First come, first served. Whoever submits their request first gets the nod. It's simple, transparent, and easy to defend if anyone challenges it.
Rotation. If the same person missed out last year, they go to the front of the queue this time around. It takes a bit more tracking but it feels fairer over time, especially in smaller teams where the same clashes crop up every summer.
Whichever approach you go with, apply it consistently. A system only works if you stick to it every time, not just when it's convenient. And always write down the decision and the reasoning behind it. That paper trail matters.
Myth: you can't say no to a holiday request
You absolutely can.
You're within your rights to decline a leave request as long as you give the employee enough notice. The notice period for a refusal needs to match the length of leave they asked for. So if someone requested a week off, you need to tell them it's been refused at least a week in advance.
Your annual leave policy can also set out blackout periods or minimum notice requirements for submitting requests. That's perfectly reasonable.
The one thing you can't do is refuse requests in a way that's discriminatory. For example, always giving parents priority during school holidays while turning down everyone else. That opens you up to claims of unfair treatment.
Myth: verbal requests and emails are fine
They might feel fine. Until someone says "I told you about that weeks ago" and you've got no record of it.
Emails get buried. Verbal conversations get forgotten. A proper HR software system gives you a single place to see who's off, who's requested what, where the overlaps are, and how much leave each person has left. Employees can check their own balance and submit requests without chasing you for answers.
It also creates a digital record showing your decisions were made fairly and consistently. If a dispute ever arises, that trail is worth its weight in gold.
HR software can even flag patterns you might not notice yourself, like one particular team being short-staffed every August.
Myth: you can take your time deciding
Sitting on a request for a fortnight while you weigh things up doesn't just frustrate the person waiting. It makes their own planning harder. They might be trying to book flights or coordinate childcare.
Make a decision quickly. If you've got a clear system in place, the decision should be straightforward most of the time.
Get requests in early and spread leave out
Encourage your team to put their summer requests in well ahead of time. The earlier they come in, the fewer last-minute clashes you'll need to deal with.
It's also worth keeping an eye on how leave is being used across the year. If one person has saved up three weeks for August while everyone else has been taking theirs steadily throughout the year, that puts real pressure on the team. You could have spotted that earlier and had a conversation about it.
And don't forget about the people who are still working while colleagues are away. Make sure there's a proper plan in place so they're not left scrambling to cover everything with no support.
Be honest when the answer is no
Your business needs have to come first. But when you do turn down a request, explain why.
A brief, honest reason goes a long way. People can accept a "no" much more easily when they understand the thinking behind it. What they struggle with is silence or vague responses that leave them guessing.
Remember, you need a legitimate business reason for any refusal. And that reason needs to be applied consistently across the team, not selectively.
Put your policy in writing before summer arrives
If you haven't already, set out clear rules in your annual leave policy. Cover things like how much notice is needed for requests, how clashes will be resolved, and any periods where leave is restricted.
Then communicate it to the whole team. Don't assume people know the rules if you've never actually told them. A quick team email or a five-minute chat at a meeting can save you weeks of headaches later.
How our consultancy services in Thanet can help
I work with small businesses to review annual leave policies, set up or improve HR software, and advise on specific clashes or disputes before they turn into something bigger.
Managing holiday requests by hand works for a while. But for most small businesses, it falls apart once summer kicks in. HR software takes the guesswork out of it and gives you proper visibility over your team's leave.
If you'd like to talk through how to get your leave process sorted, or if you've already got a tricky situation brewing, I'd love to hear from you.
I can help you put a fair, consistent system in place that protects your business and keeps your team happy.
Get in touch and let's have a chat about what would work for you.

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